AYA has reached a point that needs to evolve to continue to be what it always was.
Who is Rich Zhong? What is he doing here? What to
expect from him?
These and other questions, Sir Rich
Zhong responds to
readers of AYA's Blog.
Marta
Mars: Sir Rick,
I like to start my interviews with my interviewees talking about themselves.
Then who is Rick Zhong?
Rich
Zhong: Hmmm, I think that I'm a bit of a Swiss Army
Knife. Whatever I need at the moment
just pops out at the ready <smiles>.
I consider myself “straight,” but want to experience new things as much
as possible. Isn't that what SL is best
at offering? Probably my single biggest
defining characteristic is that I'm a very patient person. I let the winds carry me along and trust that
things will usually turn out as they should in the long run. I might nudge
destiny here or there, but never a large change. I think this philosophy has worked well for
me so far.
Marta Mars: I can see in your profile that you have a large experience in SL; can you talk a little about it?
Rich
Zhong: I've been around for quite a few years. I used to own a forest sim, had partners,
lost partners, used various AVs (male, female, other), but I have a principle
of only one active AV at a time. I have owned
three fully collared subs (at different times), and took those relationships
extremely seriously. At one point in my
career I was in the senior management of another well-known BDSM sim, but have no
association there now.
Marta Mars: I can see too that you are a follower of BDSM, what are your preferences, how you define yourself in BDSM universe?
Rich
Zhong: In a Dom capacity, I tend to be most at ease with
100% submissives rather than switches.
The RL gender doesn't make any difference to me, so I have had both RL
males and RL females. I do prefer the SL
form to be female, however. For me, AYA
is an ocean of beauty as far as the eye can see! Also, I have a special interest in chastity
for sissies, and I make a *very* reliable keyholder <grins>.
Marta Mars: How was it that you found AYA?
Rich
Zhong: I've always been interested in the extra layer of
submission available to sissies and maids.
So I think combining the two of them together is a wonderful idea. In searching SL, there is only one sissy sim
that really stands out. When I visited,
I immediately found the engaging family atmosphere and was hooked! The Queen and Governesses were extremely
supportive while I was getting started and initially meeting people.
Marta Mars: What do you expect to find in AYA?
Rich
Zhong: I hope I can be accepted by everyone in the
family even though I'm not much of a party person or dancer. I'm much more
comfortable talking one-on-one than in a group.
Marta
Mars: You are an
AYA’s Family member and all Family welcomes you. You are the first Sir in AYA
in a long time, how you see this?
Rich
Zhong: It really depends on the person, of course, but
there might be some types of feelings or interactions that are best done with a
Sir. I think it strengthens the
diversity of the sim and is in keeping with our founding principles of
accepting everybody without prejudice for who they are inside. I encourage anybody to strike up a
conversation if they are curious about me.
I'm usually shy about meeting in the beginning because I know that some
people have no interest at all, and I don't want to bother them.
Marta Mars: You have some dream that you would like to accomplish here?
Rich
Zhong: When I first came to AYA, I was thinking about
finding a girl to call my own from amongst the maids of AYA, but now I have
found the perfect special girl outside of AYA and I hope to bring her here in
the future. After that, who knows? I have a feeling that I will find something
more than I originally expected <smiles>.
I don't do anything in haste, so let's just see what time will bring.
Marta
Mars: Everybody
can contribute with something to improve our Family, what you think about this
statement?
Rich
Zhong: The very first day I set foot in AYA, I already
knew that I had a mission to help the sim and everybody in it. This feeling is growing even stronger as I
meet more AYA people, find out how great the people are, and negotiate the maze
of interlocking relationships. I just
hope that people can feel my honest wish to help and not prejudge me because of
my physical form.
Marta Mars: Let’s talk now about you, you have a family, wife or sons?
Rich
Zhong: I used to raise two little girls in SL with my
previous partner (family role play), but I don't presently have a wife or
children. I would certainly not be
against having a family if I happen to find the right people <pokes Amy>.
Marta
Mars: Thanks
very much for your interview. Can you say something for our readers?
Rich
Zhong: Long live AYA and long live the Queen!
Welcome to AYA’s Family Sir Rich Zhong
By Marta
So i might be a little biased here.
ReplyDeleteBut welcome Rick . Its great to have you here.
Hes is a wonderful guy and i know this from experience
Rick is a real Gentleman and my eye candy :)
So maybe some of you still think ok so its a guy' Not to sure about this
But give this man a chance and i promise you he wont be disappointing.
We need a few Men around the place and if they are all like Rick then we will be a very lucky community
Welcome to the AYA family Rick
I tend to be skittish around men sometimes. It's one of the reasons I find myself attracted to femdoms. But, I didn't feel that when I met Sir Rick.
ReplyDeleteEven though I don't identify as a man (or a woman) I do identify as male. At first I thought I might lose my position as a trainee maid because of that.
Instead I found people who were willing to make a place for me in their minds and hearts, and have made me feel welcome here. I hope people will be able to do the same for Sir Rick.
I agree fully with Governess Zav. When I met Rick the first time at Aya, I convinced myself that he must have some wicked agenda. But at the same time he seemed very cool, polite and confident. After a few talks, I came to like him...very much:) Rick is openminded, positive, emphatic and has a rarely high level of selfestime. And it doesn't hurt he is drop dead handsome :) I wish you all good at Aya....and yes, I would be honoured if you would be on my short list *giggles*
ReplyDeleteI haven't got the pleasure of meeting him. Still I wish he enjoys the best in our lovely mansion. Thank you Marta for this awesome interview.
ReplyDeletewelcome to Aya Sir Rick
ReplyDeleteI am pleased you are part of our family
Welcome to Aya Sir Rick.
ReplyDeleteI remember he asked me a few questions about Aya and was very polite.
A great interview Mistress Marta
Thanks my Girl
DeleteHugs adn Kiss